Your answer should be given appropriate attention. A few words or even one sentence is probably not enough. Be open and even vulnerable and let your partner see what matters to you.
- We learn from our mistakes, yet we’re always so afraid to make one. Where is this true for you? 
- What risk would you take if you knew you could not fail? 
- What is your greatest strength? Have any of your recent actions demonstrated this strength? 
- What are the top five things you cherish in your life? 
- How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? 
- When do you stop calculating risk and rewards, and just do it? 
- At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive? 
- What do you most connect with? Why? 
- What one piece of advice would you offer a newborn child? 
- Which is worse—failing or never trying? 
- Why do we do things we dislike and like the things we never seem to do? 
- What are you avoiding? 
- What is the one job/cause/activity that could get you out of bed happily for the rest of your life? Are you doing it now? 
- When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? 
- What are you most grateful for? 
- What would you say is one thing you’d like to change in the world? 
- Do you find yourself influencing your world, or it influencing you? 
- Are you doing what you believe in or settling for what you’re doing? 
- What are you committed to? 
- Which worries you more – doing things right or doing the right things? 
- If joy became the national currency, what kind of work would make you wealthy? 
- Have you been the kind of friend you’d want as one? 
- Do any of the things that used to upset you a few years ago matter at all today? What’s changed? 
- Would you rather have less work to do or more work you enjoy doing? 
- What permission do you need/want to move forward? 
- Really, what do you have to lose if you go for it? 
- How different would your life be if there weren’t any criticism in the world? 
- We’re always making choices. Are you choosing for your story or for someone else’s?